Friday, August 28, 2026

Waiting for Mom

 Waiting for Mom

    Jim had been waiting a long time for his mother to arrive. She would come and pick him up each day after school. Sometimes Jim's mom would be waiting outside the school, at the curb with the motor running, when Jim came out of the school building. Other times she would be a few minutes late, but never more than ten.

    It had now been more than half an hour, and Jim was getting worried. Had his mother gotten into an accident? Did she forget it was a school day? No, Jim thought, after all, she had dropped him off at school that morning.

    Just then, Jim's mother pulled up. As he got in the car and closed the door, Jim's mom explained that she had taken his little sister, Susie to the doctor for an appointment. She said that his sister Susie had panicked when the nurse told her that she needed to get a scheduled vaccination. Jim said, "But mom, Susie doesn't even know what a vaccination is."

    "I know that, honey," Jim's mom said. "It wasn't the word vaccination that freaked her out. It was the sight of the needle!"

    "Well, did she cry?" Jim asked.

    "Yes, she was crying even before the nurse cleaned her arm with rubbing alcohol. She asked me to hug her and talk to her about butterflies until it was over."

    Jim followed up, "Did that work?"

    "Yes. It wasn't easy, though. She squirmed a lot so it was tough for the nurse to get the needle in the area of her arm she was aiming for. But after it was done, the nurse told her that she had done a great job, and that she was brave for doing it."

    "I'm glad everything worked out okay," Jim said. "You know, Mom. You're a great mom."

(c) 2016 Henry Anker

The Play

 The Play

    Our teacher told us that our class was going to put on a play. The play would be performed in the auditorium, a month from now, but we would be rehearsing together in the classroom. Once a week we would practice for an hour after school. Each student in the class would be responsible for practicing his or her own lines at home.

    The play would be a story of how the some Pilgrims came to this country. It would show how they worked hard to make homes for their families. It would also show how some American Indians living nearby helped the Pilgrims survive the long winter, and how they could grow their own food. Because part of the audience for the show would be little kids, the 'realities' of disease, land theft, violence, and warfare during the time period would be left out.

    Our parents would be helping out by making the costumes, and the Art teacher would have her students paint the sets. Little by little, things came together. The student actors were becoming fluent in delivering their lines. The sets began to make the scenes more realistic with backgrounds of forests, cabins, and Native American villages. Students were also taught how to operate the stage lights and the spotlights so the audience could feel like the action was taking place at different times of the day or night, in different places, and long ago.

    the night of the play arrived and all the seats were filled. Some people were even standing in the back. The house lights dimmed and the curtain went up. The first scene showed a group of Pilgrim settlers rowing a small wooden boat to shore. The next showed Pilgrims building their houses as fake snow was sprinkled from above by students on ladders backstage.

    Things continued to go well until one of the actors bumped into a cardboard tree which caused a domino effect of trees falling across the stage. Everyone pitched in to get things back in order and the play continued. The actors remembered almost all of their lines. The sets were changed each time the curtain closed between scenes. The ending of the play brought a standing ovation from the audience, and a curtain call from the cast.

The SmartPhone

 The SmartPhone

    Jennifer had a panicked look on her face. Her eyes were wide, her heart was racing, her breathing quickened, and her head turned left and right, and up and down rapidly. She lifted her backpack off the seat of her desk, checked in all of the pouches, looked under the chair, and all around the floor. She patted her pants pockets and squeezed the fabric of her sweatshirt. All the students in the class had made their way into the hallway upon hearing the dismissal bell. Her teacher, Mr. Johnson, walked over to where Jennifer was standing with a puzzled, worried look on her face.

    “What’s the matter, Jennifer?”

    “Mr. Johnson, I think somebody took my phone!”

    Just then, Jennifer’s friend Ashley entered the room. “Jennifer, what’s wrong? Aren’t you coming?”

    "My phone! I can't find my phone!" Jennifer complained.

    "I have it," Ashley reassured her friend. "Don't you remember that you had asked me to charge it for you while I was in the Computer Lab?"

    "Oh, yeah. Thanks." Jennifer sighed, relieved to see her nearly new phone again. Mr. Johnson went back to his teacher's desk to turn off the LCD projector.

    "Look, I got your phone back up to eighty-seven percent charged," Ashkey said proudly.

    "Thanks," said Jennifer. Her heart and breathing were near normal again, and her voice had calmed, too.

    Jennifer checked to see if she had received any text messages from her friends or her mom, and then tucked her phone carefully into her back pocket, making sure the headphone cord was coming out the top and wasn't tangled. Jennifer and Ashley walked toward the door and said goodbye to Mr. Johnson who waved and smiled and returned to his work. He was not suprised by what had happened. It was a normal occurrence.

Thursday, August 27, 2026

Making Pancakes

 Making Pancakes

    As Connie was getting dressed, she could hear Debra doing something down in the kitchen. Oh, no, Connie thought, Debra must be fixing breakfast again. My sister does many things well, but cooking breakfast isn’t one of them. Connie sniffed the air to see if she could tell what her sister was trying to make.

    When Connie got to the kitchen, she discovered that Debra was making pancakes. She was also making a mess! Flour, eggshells, and puddles of milk were all over the counter and on the floor. The flame on the stove was very high, and the pancakes were burning on the skillet.

    Connie didn’t want to hurt Debra’s feelings, so she sat down and tried to eat. Suddenly Connie didn’t feel well. “Maybe you’re coming down with something,” Debra said.

    Connie nodded. She just couldn’t tell Debra that she thought the pancakes were making her sick. “I’m okay,” Connie said weakly. “Maybe you’re coming down with something,” Debra said.

    Connie nodded. She just couldn’t tell Debra that she thought the pancakes were making her sick. “I’m okay,” Connie said weakly. “Maybe I’m still full from dinner last night.”

    “Have some more,” Debra offered.

    “No, thank you, really. One is just enough for me. By the way, did you add any special ingredients to the batter that were not part of the cooking instructions?”

    “Oh, yes, I did. Just a little leftover chopped celery from the fridge and some chili powder. Can you taste that?”

    Connie’s eyes opened wide, she let out a gasp, put her hand over her mouth, and ran to the bathroom as fas as she could.

Saturday, May 30, 2026

Autism Awareness

 Autism Awareness

What is Autism?

    Autism is a neurological condition (having to do with brain development), that starts in early childhood, where toddlers have difficulty in talking to and playing with others. Autism affects the ability of a person to communicate their needs and learn. It is a condition that is now showing up in children at an alarming rate. According to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control (C.D.C.), autism may occur in as many as 1 in every 68 children. Psychologists and pediatricians are looking for answers as to why so many people now have autism, and what can be done about it. They have been looking for signs of autism in young people for more than 30 years. There is no cure, but there is a lot that can be done. To understand more about autism, experts studying this disease first look for symptoms. What are some of the symptoms you might see in a person diagnosed with Autism?

Symptoms of Autism

    If you were to point out an object across the room, would a child with autism look at it? (For example, if you point at a toy or an animal, would the child look in the direction of the toy or animal?) The child may not. Children with autism can show a lack of focused attention on toys and others. Some children with autism at times even behave in a way that makes them appear to be deaf to others. Would a child with autism respond when you call his or her name? (For example, would he or she look up at the person who is talking?) The child may not. Children with autism can have difficulty responding to others. Would such a child play pretend or make-believe? (For example, would the child pretend to drink from an empty cup, pretend to talk on a phone, or pretend to feed a doll or stuffed animal?) Children with autism frequently show a lack of imaginative play. Sometimes children with autism make unusual wiggling finger movements near their face.

    Many children with autism show a lack of interaction with others. Does a child with autism show an interest in other children? Does the child watch other children, smile at them, or go to them? Instead of interacting, children with autism might separate themselves from others. Does the child get upset by everyday noises? (For example, does the child scream or cry when hearing loud noises such as a vacuum cleaner or loud music?) Many children with autism have a hypersensitivity to loud sounds like an ambulance siren or a school bell. Does the child look you in the eye when you are talking to him, playing with him, or dressing him? Children with autism might not make eye contact with people speaking to them. Children with autism might show an avoidance to touch, closeness, or contact with water. A child with autism may avoid hugs, touches like 'high-fives' or 'fist bumps', or take steps to avoid contact with water, such as a sidewalk that is made wet from lawn sprinklers. Some children with autism frequently walk on tiptoes, others pull on their earlobes, and many like to spin in circles. These are not the only symptoms children with autism may show, and not all children with autism will display all of these symptoms. But these are signs, that often help psychologists make an early, preliminary diagnosis of autism.

    There are other signs of autism seen during pediatric psychological evaluations that specialists refer to as 'indicators' of autism. These include lining up toy cars instead of the child making them go, "Vroom, vroom", or using blocks to make slender towers instead of a more elaborate 'house' or other creation. Speech delay, where the child has few or no words in his vocabulary, long after the time when most typical 1 and 2 year olds begin talking, is the most telling symptom of autism in children. Many children with mild autism don't begin to speak until they are three or four years old. And even then, the number of words the child will use is limited to just a few dozen. Children with severe autism may never speak at all.

    In older children, teens, and young adults, some symptoms that manifest themselves are 'self-talk' (talking to self in a low voice that others nearby can hear), scratching their skin, biting skin on hands and fingernails, and a habit of tearing bits of paper and saving the scraps. These are generally indicators of stress that the child feels about school, social situations, or concern about being punished for secretly damaging something in the home. Many young people with autism can have food allergies and serious issues with digesting certain kinds of foods.

The Autism Spectrum

    What does the word Spectrum mean in the diagnosis of Autism Spectrum Disorder (A.S.D.)? Spectrum, as we know from art, describes the range of a color tint mixed in, to make a light, mild shade of a color, or with a larger amount of tint mixed in, making the color more 'severely' visible. Spectrum, as it applies to a diagnosis of autism, means that a person can have mild autism with few symptoms, or more severe autism with numerous, obvious symptoms. Therefore, the more severe the autism, the more difficult it is for a child to communicate with siblings, parents, and teachers. Children with severe autism have more pronounced symptoms, are more distractible, and create greater challenges for their parents and teachers in raising and working with them. Regardless of the severity of the autism a child has, providing what is called "Early Intervention" is critically important in helping a child with autism overcome these challenges, learn to make friends, take care of their personal needs, and learn in school.

Early Intervention

    What are some practices that teachers and parents can use to help a student diagnosed with autism? Teachers and parents should always try to be kind and patient. They should show an enthusiastic love of learning. They can encourage a child to take up a musical instrument, interact with animals, or play a sport with peers, like youth soccer. Teachers and parents need to give clear instructions on how to do something, like brushing their teeth, putting toys away, or using their Google Drive account, one step at a time. Parents can help their child overcome a hypersensitivity to sound by helping the child himself learn to operate a blender, juicer, a vacuum or the volume control on a computer. Children with autism should be given opportunities to participate in art activities with their 'typical' peers. Here they can explore a variety of textures, using paint, shaving cream, clay, or glue with dried goods like beans and pasta shells when creating their art. They should have the chance to create pictures and describe them to others. People with autism are often 'visual' thinkers and learners. Many children with autism enjoy drawing, and they can use their drawings to communicate their likes and wants.

    There are many more techniques teachers and parents can use to help children with autism improve their social, communication, and academic skills. They can make good use of travel time by reading with, or talking with the child in the car. Families can carry toys and activities with them when they are out of the house, at the doctor's office, or at a restaurant. These games might include picture flash cards, mini board games, and puzzles. Note that this does not include the use of video games, which only serve to restrict social interaction and speech with others, which are what children with autism need most.

    Establishing daily routines and following them (like doing chores and keeping a calendar) can lower a child's anxiety level and increase participation in activities at school and home. Children with autism often act out when faced with a surprise of change in routine. Helping children cope with these changes is important, but requires tremendous patience on the part of the caregivers. Knowing what activities are upcoming helps a child with autism mentally prepare him or herself. Teachers and parents can help find 'playbuddies' and study'buddies' for their children and make sure they have a lot of time to be together. Teaching with manipulatives like Lego™ and other toys fosters the imagination. A good prompt to promote communication is to ask the child to 'describe' the building product or scene with characters she has set up. Taking swimming lessons has proven to help children with autism gain self confidence and become more comfortable with water, touch, and unusual textures. Self confidence and independence can also increase as children learn how to ride a bike, ride a horse, skate, or learn tumbling or martial arts moves.

    Using plastic props to pretend they are running a store, a school, or a medical clinic can help children with autism take part in group dramatic play activities and improve their communication. Getting down on the floor with children with autism, making efforts to gain eye contact and initiate conversation, as outlined in the writings of psychologist, Dr. Stanley Greenspan, has also proven effective. Here, adults get down to floor level, one on one, and help the child to focus on the adult and the task before him. This could include naming objects, choosing among objects based on a question like, "Which animal has a shell and can swim?" This is sustained time, repeated, ideally on a daily basis, that children with autism recognize as time dedicated to communicating their learning.

    Another pioneer in developing methods to help children with autism is an adult who was born with autism himself. Ruan Kauffman, the original focus of the Son-Rise™ program was taught from early childhood with dedicated techniques developed by his parents to emerge from his confining autistic world. Basically, in the Son-Rise™ program, a windowless room with little visual simulation is first used where the child learns to focus on a family member or therapist. The child is encouraged to use whatever language he or she has to get needs met. This includes getting the adult to retrieve a toy down from a high shelf, share in imaginative play with a stuffed animal, make silly facial expressions, talk about Thomas the Train™, or whatever the child wants. Once some interaction with the adult is achieved, the adult responds with positive reinforcement, and gradually seeks to get the child to extend the activity or begin to follow the adult's prompt for further communication or play. In this way, the child begins to trust the adult, follow social cues like conversational turn-taking, head nodding, smiling, and sharing. Little by little, the child can begin to interact with other people, showing what activities interest him, including playing with age-group peers, using these same skills. Once this happens with regularity within the confined space, the child can begin to function successfully with others, trained or untrained, in the real world of school, stores, restaurants, hospitals, amusement parks, at a sporting event, or other places in the community.

    What can these peers do to help a child with autism? They can make eye contact and smile. They can talk together about what interests the child. If the child with autism cannot yet speak, the typical peer can point at objects, use the Picture Exchange System (P.E.C.s), or use sign language gestures to communicate. Age group peers can make an effort to always include a peer with autism in their clique. Adults can help to foster these relationships, meaning teachers and parents can try to group kids together for playdates and schoolwork. Having patience and a positive attitude while socializing with a child can lead to many positive outcomes. With the right people using the right approaches, children with autism often can be nurtured to become the most friendly, affectionate, positive, and social people you will ever meet.

Conclusion

    Really, there is no 'conclusion' to the commitment of assisting in the social growth and development of a child with autism. This is an ongoing, never-ending dedication to helping the child grow into a happy, social, successful, independent adult. The early intervention methods discussed here begin with the diagnosis of autism in a toddler and continue through consistent, creative support in the elementary years. Next will come the middle school and high school years, with puberty and awkwardness arriving along the way. Every new experience that approaches is a challenge and a potential learning experience that the child should be prepared for, whenever possible. Every difficulty or failure becomes an opportunity to learn to do better next time. This includes the child, the parents, and other adults the child knows. Much of the learning of children with autism is aided by repetition, until the skill is mastered. People who work with the child should expect plenty of bumps and some unforgettable high points on this journey, ideally with a community of supporters eager to cheer the child on. Ruan Kauffman, the child of the Son-Rise™ program mentioned earlier, was at one time, a child who was diagnosed with autism, who grew into a college graduate of Brown University, and later became a best-selling author and engaging public speaker. His own experiences and early intervention advocacy have influenced millions of parents and teachers of children with autism, and led to outstanding results for their children and students. What Raun's parents, therapists, and teachers attained shows what early intervention, research, insight, patience, and dedication can achieve. More and more children diagnosed with autism today are making strides forward and realizing achievements as Raun did, that years ago were not thought of as possible. With early intervention, children diagnosed with autism can have a bright future.





Henry Anker and his wife Barbara are public school teachers and parents of a college student with autism who realized great success using the methods presented here. Ms. Anker is a teacher of elementary students with autism. Mr. Anker is also an educational technology web site author.



Works Cited

Greenspan, Stanley I., and Serena Wieder. Engaging Autism: Using the Floortime Approach to Help Children Relate, Communicate, and Think. Cambridge, MA: Da Capo Lifelong, 2006. Print.

Kaufman, Raun Kahlil. Autism Breakthrough: The Groundbreaking Method That Has Helped Families All over the World. 2014 Print.

‌© Henry Anker

Thursday, May 28, 2026

Animals

 Animals

    Animals can come in all shapes and sizes. There are very small animals like ants, flies, and spiders. There are small animals like snails, mice, and rabbits. Animals that are very heavy are animals like elephants and hippos. Some animals are very tall, like giraffes.

    Animals can live on land or in the water. Some animals that live on land are deer, bears, and moose. Some animals that live in the water are whales, dolphins, and sharks. Those animals live in the ocean. They are called marine animals.

    Animals that live in lakes and rivers include trout, bass, and turtles. These are called fresh water animals. Some animals, like birds, can fly. Some birds that you might know are falcons, eagles, and hawks.

    Some animals can live in water, on land, and can fly. A good example of this is the duck. Ducks can do all three. Ducks can look for food on land and in the water, and they can fly places they want to go pretty fast.

    The world is filled with interesting animals that are amazing to see. It is fun to learn about what they do and how they live. You can learn about animals at school, in books from the library, and by looking for information about them on the Internet.


Works Cited

“Animals.” Https://Www.Henryanker.Com, www.henryanker.com/Language/Reading_Fluency/13_Animals.pdf. Accessed 30 May 2026.

A Generous Person

 A Generous Person

    Kimberly, a generous person, had 36 new, unsharpened Power-Glow-Girls pencils. She wanted to share them equally among three friends. She gathered her friends together. As they huddled around Kimberly, the girls wondered if they would each receive the same number of pencils. Luckily, Kimberly knew how to divide. She informed the friends that they would each get the same amount. Kimberly knew that if she gave one of her friends more than the others, the ones who got fewer might be jealous. Without using a calculator, Kimberly was able to solve the division equation ‘thirty-six divided by three.’ Each of her friends received a dozen pencils from their generous friend.

    At home, Kimberly was just as generous with members of her family. She would always share her pillows and stuffed animals when her little sister Rebecca had trouble sleeping. When her older brother Francisco needed help with his math homework, Kimberly would stop working on her assignments and help him until he understood his.

    Kimberly’s grandmother Maria recently arrived from the Philippines to live with her family. If she wanted to practice her English, Kimberly would stop whatever she was doing and help her learn words for things around the house, like ‘refrigerator’, and verbs for things people do, like ‘vacuuming’. Kimberly often served as a language translator for parents and teachers at her school, even if it meant leaving her friends at recess to do it.


“A Generous Person.” Mr. Anker Tests Reading Fluency Masters, www.henryanker.com/FluencyMasters.html. Accessed 30 May 2026.